The youth reality show – MTV Love School, participants Karan Kundrra and Anusha Dandekar share the tips for a successful relationship. The couple have been dating for past 3 years. Anusha Dandekar is a popular VJ-actress and Karan Kundrra a popular TV Actor. The secret mantra for a healthy relationship is helping the other partner grow. Checkout the secret tips shared by them.
#1 Finding someone for the correct reason.
The biggest fear in today’s generation is the fear of being left out. People are always in the search of getting their hands on the next best. We admire people or their personality or their romance and wish that we might also get that persons looks or romance then life would be perfect. But the truth is no one including you is not perfect. So the person who makes you happy is the only one perfect for you.
#2 Find the friend in your partner.
You might not have had time to know each other as friends before you got into the relationship. But once you are into the relationship the best thing that could happen with you is to be besties. Be the best friends, be comfortable with each other, have fun, feel free, travel, have the experience of the world and most importantly be real to each other. But that doesn’t mean that you should cut off yourself from your other friends. In fact it’s healthy to have both. The most magical part of any relationship is being able to communicate what’s in your mind and being able to understand your partner’s feeling.
#3 Be your real self in the relationship.
The key to a successful relationship is being yourself. You should not be afraid of communication and expressing your thoughts and emotions even if they are completely opposite. Of course saying what you fee lovingly is a better option than shouting or screaming. A relationship is not only being true to your partner but more importantly being true to your own self.
#4 Do not try to change your partner.
Do not ever try to bring changes in your partner. Try and remember why you fell in love with your partner. If you’ll change it then that person would not remain the same person any more. Love is all about compromise, appreciation and acceptance. No one is perfect. There might be 5 things you don’t like about your partner. Instead of trying to change those 5 things try and concentrate on the 20 things you like about your partner. Stay positive because once the negative spiral begins all the good things in the relationship also start looking bad. A happy bonding comes when you and your partner take steps to embrace each other and not to change each other.
#5 Respect priorities of one another.
Today’s world is fast growing. Every one is on the route of trying to achieve his or her goals. Priorities may differ. But as long as your are aware, comfortable and happy with each other’s priorities things go very smooth. Never try to change others priorities according to yours. Everyone has the freedom. The relationship should be built in a manner that you can respect each other’s time, space and decisions.